Are there any BDSM play spaces couples can rent in NYC? It seems like there would be a place where folks could try BDSM furniture/equipment without having to invest the money and space for it. |
Your best bet would probably to go to Paddles. It is an open to public BDSM club that has a good assortment of furniture and devices.
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Where can I buy good quality, inexpensive BDSM clothing in NYC? I have a few outfits my slave enjoys very much, but these outfits consist of civilian clothes anyone can wear at any time, whether they're in a scene or not, such as business suits. I'm looking for a place where I can buy leather items (particularly shorts), and, ideally, either a panzer style or SS style bondage uniform, or at least an SS style coat, so I can surprise my slave with a unique experience in a very unique uniform when I see her again in a couple months during spring break.
Does anyone know of any stores where I can get such items for a relatively reasonable price? and it would help if the store has a supplies in numerous sizes, as I'm a bigger buy (I wear a XXXL/XXL shirt, depending on the cut).
any and all help is appreciated. My slave's been very good these past few months. she deserves a reward. |
| It's been some time since I was back living there, but I had quite a dungeon when I did. Try walking From Second Ave and 11th street staying on Second toward the lower streets. If you don't find the store there, I probably went to Third Ave. |
Are The LGBT and BDSM Support Groups Always At Gay Parades Together? I've been to a few gay parades in NYC and down in San Franciso. I noticed that where there is a gay celebration going on that the BDSM movement is always there; not that I have a problem with it.
I always see people throwing whips, having people walking the streets on dog leashes, and people being flogged at the gay parades. Are the two movements always together or is this going on for gay/lesbians who happen to also be involved with BDSM? |
| Yes always! Think if it this way. Instead of just marching for your rights the Gay culture has to march and put on the biggest FREAK FEST anyone has seen to make it known they are gay. So you will always find the freaks in with the gay crowd because they have no where else to go. Take a look at Transgender.....Are they gay? No they dont think they are but there in with the gay crowd. Does it make sense? |
Is The LGBT And BDSM Movement Together? I have been to many pride parades in NYC and in LA. Wherever there is a LGBT march, the whips and the leather folk are not far behind. Is it that some gays/lesbians engage in this sexual behavior or is it because there really is no movement for BDSM'ers? |
| I wouldn't say that there even is a BDSM movement. Regardless, it is not associated with LGBT persons. Just like there are straight people who are into getting whipped, there are also gay people who enjoy it. Sexual preference has nothing to do with it. |
Are there any munches in New York? (excluding ones in NYC)? I'm new to the BDSM scene and my mistress first assignment for me was to find a munch closest to me and attend it. She's leaving it up to me how I come about finding it. I live near Syracuse. Any help? |
| In Cazenovia, right near cuse. |