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Do I need more experience to know I'm gay? Here are the details:
I used to fantasize about boys exclusively until I was about eight. Then it was still focused on the boy and not the girl for the duration of the time I thought about girls. (which I don't do anymore)
I used to watch straight porn, but it left me unsatisfied and mildly disgusted. One day, after feeling nothing from a dozen or so straight clips, I watched some cheap bi porn. It was then I realized that I'm very attracted to certain male bodies and completely unattracted to practically all female bodies. (Small breasts don't bother me to the extent large ones do, but I don't like vaginas whatsoever.)
I've made out and been nude with both sexes, but I didn't get into it with girls like I did with guys. (no sex)
Some girls have sexy personalities, but there are guys I find cute in that way too. As for other guys, I'm completely turned off by the typical frat boy/he-man types. I've never been in a relationship.
So, is this sufficient to know I'm gay? | if you are a gay and you didn't have any sexual relation with a man
my advice to you is DON'T DO IT
you will feel desperate it's an illusion in our minds that we will find excitement in doing unnatural things
Porn movies are illusion they are doing it to make money you have a mind, think wisely
Media doesn't care about your psychological aspect
I hope you find happiness in you life | I'm falling for my gay best friend!? Help... He says he's gay, doesn't like me, but then he acts like he does?
Okayyyyy. I'm so confused. I like this guy. He's bi, but he told me flat out he likes boys better than girls. I flirt with him all the time, but he never catches on. But like... We'd both said we think each other is cute and he sent me nudes... He says he cares about me, but I think thats just from where I said I was gonna kill myself. He always tries his hardest to bring me up when I'm down. He's the reason I got counseling. We could be together, he just doesn't aknowledge that. Should I just drop him, since I highly doubt we'll be anything more than friends? I'm so confused ): i hate being a girl! | He could like you, but just says he doesn't cause he might think you wont feel the same way.
I think if you guys are good friends, don't drop him if he doesn't like you. Unless of course you couldn't stand JUST being friends with him. Take it to the next level and see what happens. If nothing does, you could always just be his friend..which i know is not what you want to hear.
Love sucks...lol. | What then is my sexuality? I am a 21 yr old male who has been trying to figure out what sexuality I belong to. But it seems I am totally confused....
I don't get any sexual attraction to either gender sexually or romantically which means I don't find someone hot, cute and I am not drawn to feel love for someone. I am indifferent to nude figures of females or males, neither excites me. I dont get what is meant by an attractive body etc...
However, time and again, since an early age, I have noticed something peculiar of me. I notice guys, and imagine them doing sexual acts or foreplays as in movies which arouses me wild!! I regularly masturbate with such scenes of the guy doing some sexual thing to either some girl or to me.In the latter case it of course becomes a gay fantasy, but,I am the submissive one here since I dont myself do anything. My fantasies also do have some impact on me in reality as I do end up desiring males erotically often, but not in the way or cause as gay boys do. I desire their attention, and if they gaze, I get horny just due to their perverted attitude. But I am sure that if it gets too much sexual, I would find it completely repulsive as I don't find anything on physical level arousing or exciting.
To explain in a simple way, it's that,any perverted action of a male gets me aroused while I myself don't get sexual attraction to anyone.Seeing or imagining a pervert guy doing some frivolous sexually dominating act on someone or even me through some foreplay etc, turns me on and that's the only thing which ever turns me on. In other ways, I am very similar to an asexual person.
Now, how best to label msyelf? I am not sure as to which category I fall in. Can someone help me figure out my sexuality? | | Try hooking up with a girl and if you're not aroused by then then try a guy. | Does this make look gay or am I fine? Okay I'm 19 and I've been fan of Avril Lavigne since like Skater Boy and such and as a musician I always respect her for her work....well I know now she has done some pictures that she shows some skin. Like I do find her cute and good looking always have, but those pics bother me. Like I'm not gay or anything if I seen a nude woman I'd like it but just if its Avril, again I think she a very beautiful woman. | if you get turned on by other girls you're fine.
i couldn't get turned on by someone from disney channel or something because thats my guyhood. thats the same kind of thing, innocence is tied to her for you because you liked her since you were young and seeing her naked bothers you because thats your guyhood | I think my girlfriend might be gay, can someone (preferred girls) talk to me? I've been dating this girl for a bit over 5 months now, I'm her first real boyfriend and all. Life was and is still great when we're around each other(it's a distance thing only about 20 miles not big) though I found out 3 months in that before me she was questioning her sexuality. Believe me, when I first saw her my best friend and myself both thought she might be gay as well. It doesn't help that I suffer from depression and am naturally paranoid of woman due to events in my guyhood. Now I know some might say we're teens and not to get worked up over this, but here's the thing; I really like her a lot and don't want this to just abruptly end especially since like I said, we're teens so this is the experimental stage. Hell I myself was bi curious. Anyway the thing is she's always hinted to seeming more interested in woman.
You know how in a relationship the girl will make comments about actors or singers being hot or sexy? Well she's never once mentioned a guy other than me that she finds attractive only girls being cute and pretty.(Those girls looking like the hardcore stereotype goth girl gays, short odd hair and such)
It doesn't help my friends making jokes since I actually look like a girl with my long hair which makes me wonder if that's why she's only been attracted to me as a boy.
Next flags went up in these past two nights. She mentioned loving this song and finding the girls in the video pretty(for sake of understanding the video is called "Le Disko") I looked it up and it's basically gay girls humping each other the first minute and the girl the video focuses on looks rather gay. (I'm not trying to be an asshole I'm just stating what my mind tells me, I support gays honestly)
The last flag came up last night when my paranoia got to me and we fought over her wanting to cut her hair like one of those fohwaks? (Buzzed sides and gelled down mohawk like in the middle, with a heart pattern within the buzz parts) She finds it unbelievably cute and thinks it'd work on her, I told her no only because it does work in the sense that it just makes her look more gay than she did adding to my ill health paranoia.
Also she's an aspiring artist and tends to draw more girls than guys, recently she drew her first nude lady and seemed obsessed with the breats let alone she went crazy on trying to make this one photo look great, that and any of the girl celebs she draws which oddly enough look gay as well.
She's reassured me that she's not going to go gay, yet during the fight last night told me she's still questioning her sexuality 5 months into this thing with me.
With all of this on the table and as a guy who honestly wants to keep her, should I be scared that she's going to just up and leave me one day soon? (She's getting that hair cut today and it has me, well crapping myself over here)
Please, someone give me some words here, I really need to know. Thanks anyone who helps. | Trying to figure her out like this won't work. You'll just stress yourself out. I suggest you ask her directly.
Also, just because she seems attracted to women, it doesn't automatically mean she's gay. She could be pansexual or bisexual just as well. | Cute Shoujo Manga? please i wnt a cute shoujo manga that's like 13-16 yrs. old something except like alice academy stuff drawings or kodocha. i want is a graphic like special a, rockin'heaven. and revolves around shojo/ highschool . and cute and funny.
please don't tell this mangas:
rockin heaven
special a
cherry juice
vampire knight
AAA
venus capriccio
kodocha
naruto
death note
bleach
blood +
coz i read those mangas.
and please don't give me an answer like this " go here and pick what suits you" coz i dont really dont know wat will i chose okay. that's why im asking
and if you will give me a name of manga please put a description to it. and i want boy and girl not lesbian nor gays stuff.. and please not so nude. it's okay if it has pervert but nott to mucccch. okay :] thanks for your help :] i hope you can answer me. thaaaaaanks so much | Peach Girl is good. It's about a girl named Momo, who worries constantly about her dark skin (she tans easily), and whose "friend" Sae tries to steal everything Momo likes and wants, including her crush! It's really funny too. ^^ Sometimes, you know, when Momo's not too miserable.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peach_Girl
Mars is also good. I remember less, but the main girl is an artist (i think her name is Kira) and she falls in love with a guy who likes motorcycles. He had a twin brother (now deceased) who was also an artist. I don't remember much, so my summary sucks, but it's really cool.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mars_(manga…
D.N.Angel is really cute. It's about a boy named Daisuke, who changed into an art thief named Dark. He has a cute little (extremely merchandise-able) pet. Daisuke and Dark each have a crush on a separate one of a pair of identical twins he goes to school with.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/D.N.Angel
And... there's Snow Drop.
www.animenewsnetwork.com/encyclop… | BOYS: What would you do if this were to happen? I came up to you at school and told you to meet me in the janitor's closet at 3:30pm. You get there and no one's in there except for this nude mexican guy. You get all angry because I stood you up and so you kick the mexican guy in his bare ballsack. He in turn tries to flee your moment of terror by climbing the shelves of cleaning liquid etc. Once he gets to the top, all you have it a view of his hairy underside.
Ewww.
So you leave and get in your car to go home. Once in your car, you realise there's a naked brunette girl who asks you to make love to her. You get all excited but then this part of you makes you say "I'm gay." So then she says "Dayum shawty" and runs out of the car fully nude.
Damn.
When you get home, I'm there. You say "Why the heck didn't you meet me?" and I apologise by pulling a cute kitten out of a box and saying "He's yours!"
What would you do? | | ha yeah id roll a fat blunt and smoke it with you. then ask you to tell me stories like this one cause i bet u would be a great story teller if u were high. | Help... He says he's gay, doesn't like me, but then he acts like he does? Okayyyyy. I'm so confused. I like this guy. He's bi, but he told me flat out he likes boys better than girls. I flirt with him all the time, but he never catches on. But like... We'd both said we think each other is cute and he sent me nudes... He says he cares about me, but I think thats just from where I said I was gonna kill myself. He always tries his hardest to bring me up when I'm down. He's the reason I got counseling. We could be together, he just doesn't aknowledge that. Should I just drop him, since I highly doubt we'll be anything more than friends? I'm so confused ): i hate being a girl!
(And he's real concerned about my psychological health; he's schizophrenic, I'm bipolar. So I want to tell him about my therapist visit. But I'm worried I'll annoy him if I text him. Should i text him?) | | Maybe he wants sex | Could I be lesbian?!? All right, when I was a little guy, I always stated that "girls were good and boys were bad". When I was younger, I had friends that were girls and they would talk about how cute some boys are, but I never agreed with them. I'm a tomboy and most of my friends are boys; I get along better with guys. I had a boyfriend, made out with guys, kissed them, and had sex with them. But whenever a guy gets close to me and looks at me deeply in the eye, I feel uncomfortable. I also feel weak when they kiss me. I also don't like affection and I never liked it much, even when I was a little guy. Whenever a friend, family member, or a guy tries to give me affection, I back away because I feel weak. When I had sex with a guy, I didn't hate it, but I wasn't crazy for it either. When I slept with a guy, he wanted affection, but I couldn't bear the heat and I didn't enjoy his company. When I was in eighth grade, I claimed that I had a crush on a guy, and I liked it when he hugged me, but I let go of him too soon. But I never had the desire to get close to girls either. I never kissed, dated, or did anything with a girl. A few times, I accidentally received lesbian porn videos as a spam, and I felt butterflies in my stomach, but at the same time, I feel queesy whenever I see nude females. I start to feel bad about myself and about my body (nothing's wrong with my body). Whenever I see a nude guy, I feel indifferent. I neither get turned on nor feel queesy. I do remember when I was fifteen, I went to England for a vacation, and there I met a girl on our tour bus that I talked to. When we were in a museum, she held my hand so that I wouldn't get lost, and I didn't mind it. When we were on the plane and it got cold inside, she put a jacket on me for warmth, and I enjoyed that feeling. Then she prattled with me, as if she was my mom, and I didn't mind that either. When we arrived home, she hugged and kissed me on the cheek, and I somewhat enjoyd it. I didn't have the desire for sex with her, but I felt happy with her. I have a friend that's a guy and he's very friendly and he hugs me whenever we greet each other or say "bye" to each other. I don't mind that either. But I guess I never really loved a boy, but I don't know if I like girls or not. I never had a crush on one. I'm almost 18, btw (if it means anything). Sometimes people my age already know if they're gay or not, but my dad told me that sometimes, people don't know if they're gay or not until they're about 40 or so. So, could I be a lesbian? Or bisexual? Or asexual? I'm confused. | I honestly think you are like everyone else:
you have been conditioned to think only in terms of males when it comes to sexuality. Society tends to conform females and make them feel like males can ONLY satisfy them and that is simply not true.
I believe we are all degrees of bisexual! =)
Also you deserve happiness, so look for it. Break free from those chains and explore. I am certain you will find what you need in due time.
And gosh porn makes any person queesy!! Well I wouldnt watch it, lol, its too degrading for me. But I am bisexual. So its a process and dont rush yourself. Also you need to find inner peace by accepting whoever you might be. | Is my buddy trying to hook up with me? Im 22, my buddy is 22 as well. We've been friends for awhile now. We hangout pretty often. I sometimes wonder about him with some of the stuff he says and does. When i was first meeting his parents he said they joke around with gay jokes with him and all. I thought that was weird but it was true, he had to take a shower and they asked if we were going to do it together. Another time was when I spent the night after drinking, I was in his room about to pass out and I can see him jerking off and looking at me when I wasn't looking. Then once he slept over at my house, in the morning I woke up and looked at him and said "what's up?" he smiled and looked at his dick. I laughed on just got out of bed. There was a time when I was high with him and some girl said he found me cute, but since I was high I didn't really take it in consideration, and he was there when she said it. He's starting to call me "Gay Boy", and he's just been weird. Another thing that makes me question him is that he always wants to tag team with me and some girls. I just think he wants to see that side of me. Am I just getting creeped out by whats going on or is he trying to hint somewhere? I am kinda interested, bicurious at that. He doesnt know Im interested cuz I don't really lay anything out there. One time we were going to hang out but I had to run home and take a shower before I picked him up, he wrote me a text and said "U could of rubbed one out here?". When I hang out with him with others he doesnt even aknowlege or do anything of that sort to me as much as he would when we are alone. I took him and a buddy of mine to a fully nude strip joint and he played the straight card very well. He just acts weird. I just remembered another time I had to change cloths at his house, he was stoked that his parents were gone and when i was changing in the bathroom he said "are u naked?". I want to get it out of the bag and see what his deal is but don't know how to approach him. I think we both might be in the same spot but he's being more forward. But since I'm hiding it I don't know what to do. My other buddy who is straight who is friends with him did say one day we look cute together. So I dont know if people think im coming of gay with him or he is or if its a joke. I too started to masterbate with him sleeping next to me to see if he would do anything, but im not sure if he was looking but his face was pointed in my direction but i didnt see if he was up. I did hear him say " yeah" while i was doing it, but it sounded more like sleep talking. | you are interested. So is he. Neither of you realise what to do next. I'll tell you. Be the bad boy in private. He obviously knows how to be the good guy in public.
Together and alone, put your hand out and touch his inner thigh, gently. "I know you like this,' you tell him while sliding your hand up and over his c*ck. Caress him ."I want to feel your hard on grow."
It will. "Hmmn. You're big. I'm going to take you out." Unzip his fly. Slide your hand in and over his jocks.
This is easier said than done because there is a lot of fumbling. "Down pants," you command. "Down jocks." Go down on him and s*ck your heart out.
If he isn't already returning the favour, instruct him. |
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