If I chat with she-males in live sex chat rooms, does that mean I'm gay or just bi-curious ? I've NEVER had any type of gay relationship, and have ALWAYS considered myself heterosexual. And have been divorced, for a few years, so I'm curious as to what this means. By my actions. |
| If you're just chatting with transsexual people, it means nothing at all except that you're open to people with different gender identities/expressions. Simply chatting with them doesn't mean anything unless you're having cybersex... |
LGBT: Is there any gay/bi chat rooms or forums that talk about life rather than just sex? can you reccomend one? for people in their 20's? |
| I think you must understand people behind a computer screen are not the same as in real life. My thoughts is that people on chat rooms are really stressed or really bored people with intentions of have some kind of fantasy and get out of the real world for once. Talking about life and deep stuff is really an issue that the majority don't want to talk to in those places because it often results really boring. |
Gay chat rooms? Anyone know a good, FREE, gay chat room for chatting about sex, life, hobbies, whatever? I'm looking for a age group of teens, cause thats what I am. |
gay.com
gaywatch.com
lifeout.com |
Are there any clean gay teen chat rooms? every gay chat room i go to is all about sex, it seems like the gay community is very superficial. i just want to go to a gay chat room and do just that; chat. |
yeah i know what you mean. I have been looking for a bisexual teen chatroom that is safe but they only talk about sex. As much as I enjoy talking about bi sex ;-) i would like to just chat with someone who is bi or gay and not have to talk about sex.
If you want to talk about ANYTHING feel free to email me. |
Where do I find a good gay chat room? I'm 43 and not interested in the sex scene. I'm not gorgeous and young. But is it not possible to have gay friends? How do I just talk to people for real? |
Heya try out mypartner.secretoflove.info they have real people there who are not just after s*x.
Good luck to you |
How come gays think that the Yahoo LGBT category is a gay hangout or gay chat room? The fact is the LGBT category is the name of the topic and is for discussions about things like same sex marriage, transgender issues, bisexual concerns, the laws of Leviticus, the fact that science has proven that homosexuality is primarily caused by environment and socialization and of course we must have discussions about what facts led t the removal of homosexuality from the DSM list in 1973. |
Because it's a forum!!
Durrh! |
Fiancee was in a gay chat room? I am a 24 year old female with a 25 year old Male fiancee. I am bi-sexual, and have dated both males and females throughout my life - but tend to be more attracted to men. My fiancee is aware of this, and we have discussed my sexual past at length. During these discussions my fiancee has clearly stated not only that he is straight but has often made ignorant comments regarding gay men - something I have made quite clear that I don't approve of or appreciate.
He recently left home for 4 months for an internship in another state. When he returned he had huge problems with his laptop, he asked me to look at it (I am the tech savvy one in the relationship) and I found that he had been using Yahoo! chat. I was unaware of him having a Yahoo! account and grew suspicious that he was using it to talk to girls he met while away. I was in for a huge surprise. When I confronted him about this it came out that he had been using Yahoo! chat to go into gay chat rooms to talk to men. He claims that the conversations were sexual but brief, and that no "cyber-sex" was had and no video chats were used. He did however, set his status as "Alone and horny - this status could be viewed by anyone in the same chat room as him and he admitted it was set as such to welcome inquiries about why he was alone and horny. He specifically got on to masturbate, and he also admitted to viewing gay porn.
We discussed this situation at length and I learned that he created this account when he was 20 and questioning his sexuality. He had multiple conversations with gay men, one cyber-sex experience, and once arranged to meet a man late at night in an empty parking lot. He says that he arrived in the parking lot and stood outside his car talking to this other man for 10-15 minutes, but felt no arousal or desire to be with him. He left and did not use his Yahoo! account for quite some time.
He admitted to using this account since then about a year ago when I was out of town, and then when he left town for this internship. He says that his attraction to men has never been outside of porn - he hasn't seen a man in public or on non-sexual tv or movies that has ever turned him on. He has never felt an attraction to any friends or co-workers of the same sex either.
I am obviously a very accepting and open minded person, but several things concern me. I am concerned that he has not embraced his sexuality and seems to be ashamed and afraid of it. I am worried that he will marry me and wake up years later realizing that something is "missing" and I can't please him in the way that he needs. I am also unsure if he is bi-sexual or bi-curious, or if this is simply a sexual fetish or perversion. I don't know how to approach this - and to let him know that I am upset about him being in chat rooms (because they are more personal than just looking at porn, and the potential to meet someone is there, it's a thin line between this and being unfaithful in my eyes) and not judging his sexuality. Basically I am very hurt and confused. I don't know where to go from here. |
| Honestly, I believe more straight men watch gay porn than people think. I think some men watch it because it is raw, carnal and brutal. Many men find it to be a turn on. It's not the gay porn that I find the red flag. It's the going to the gay chat rooms. That is the red flag. I mean I see no reason why if he put the issue of his sexuality to rest years ago any reason to go onto this sites. But if he did it could have been for the type of raw unemotioned go at sex thrill he gets from watching the videos. It is the fact that actually set up to meet someone and then DID. Even if he didn't do anything (yeah right I like believe that) The fact that he arranged to meet someone tells you all the story it's time to confront him again and then demand the complete truth then move from their. |
My Fiancee was in a gay chat room.? I am a 24 year old female with a 25 year old Male fiancee. I am bi-sexual, and have dated both males and females throughout my life - but tend to be more attracted to men. My fiancee is aware of this, and we have discussed my sexual past at length. During these discussions my fiancee has clearly stated not only that he is straight but has often made ignorant comments regarding gay men - something I have made quite clear that I don't approve of or appreciate.
He recently left home for 4 months for an internship in another state. When he returned he had huge problems with his laptop, he asked me to look at it (I am the tech savvy one in the relationship) and I found that he had been using Yahoo! chat. I was unaware of him having a Yahoo! account and grew suspicious that he was using it to talk to girls he met while away. I was in for a huge surprise. When I confronted him about this it came out that he had been using Yahoo! chat to go into gay chat rooms to talk to men. He claims that the conversations were sexual but brief, and that no "cyber-sex" was had and no video chats were used. He did however, set his status as "Alone and horny - this status could be viewed by anyone in the same chat room as him and he admitted it was set as such to welcome inquiries about why he was alone and horny. He specifically got on to masturbate, and he also admitted to viewing gay porn.
We discussed this situation at length and I learned that he created this account when he was 20 and questioning his sexuality. He had multiple conversations with gay men, one cyber-sex experience, and once arranged to meet a man late at night in an empty parking lot. He says that he arrived in the parking lot and stood outside his car talking to this other man for 10-15 minutes, but felt no arousal or desire to be with him. He left and did not use his Yahoo! account for quite some time. I am pretty certain that he is being honest about his meeting with another man. He has opened up about other details that are just as embarrassing to him, and I have also grown quite good at recognizing when he is telling me a lie.
He admitted to using this account since then about a year ago when I was out of town, and then when he left town for this internship. He says that his attraction to men has never been outside of porn - he hasn't seen a man in public or on non-sexual tv or movies that has ever turned him on. He has never felt an attraction to any friends or co-workers of the same sex either.
I am obviously a very accepting and open minded person, but several things concern me. I am concerned that he has not embraced his sexuality and seems to be ashamed and afraid of it. I am worried that he will marry me and wake up years later realizing that something is "missing" and I can't please him in the way that he needs. I am also unsure if he is bi-sexual or bi-curious, or if this is simply a sexual fetish or perversion. I don't know how to approach this - and to let him know that I am upset about him being in chat rooms (because they are more personal than just looking at porn, and the potential to meet someone is there, it's a thin line between this and being unfaithful in my eyes) and not judging his sexuality. Basically I am very hurt and confused. I don't know where to go from here. |
Until you are at a real level of comfort with this issue... you may want to consider if he should be your fiancé or take a step back to boyfriend until this is sorted out.
From what you told us, seems like he is definitely bi...or perhaps, he's headed for being gay, not sure. |
LGBT; Dose anyone know good chat rooms? I try gay.com and no one talk to me so that site sucks. Do you know any good gay chat room doesn't involve sex just good clean healthy chat?>\ |
| well i don't know any personally but me and a good friend of mine are setting up this website glbtadvise.webs.com/ have a look and see what you think. the website is not well know yet but i hope it soon will be. email me what you think. |
Why are so many people on AOL/YAHOO messgr so trashy and weird, and all about sex/gay? So many gay chat rooms, so many very strange and trashy people, and people who are just downright psychotic. What the hell happened to the AOL and yahoo communities?
Seriously about 85% of these people are from the lower ring of society or something. Many of them have issues, are shallow or screwed up in some way, horny as hell. Did you SEE how many gay chat rooms there are on the service? It seems to be a breeding ground for gay people, yet in real life somehow, you don't see it AS much.
The internet seems to really have some of the WORST examples of humanity, ever.
Was it always like this, and WHY On earth did it ever become so trashy? |
| The smallest groups often have the loudest voices. Don't use such examples to judge our communities overall. Not all of us internet users use those groups, but we don't make straight chat rooms -- or rather we do, but we use subject matters that matter to us, like Anime or Books, or Music, or....you get the picture -- if you were to take every other subject and lump them together into one big chat room and label it "Straight, no issues, not screwed up" you'd find all those other rooms would be small in comparison, indeed. |