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Am I gay? (Mature answers Please)? Hello I am 15 years old and I am having big problems with this at the moment. I think I might be gay because since around like the 7th grade (im a Sophmore now) I always had these small gay fanasties (by small I mean really nothing big) but after awhile I just have straight ones again. But since then I would have straight fanasties then gay ones. It would keep changing.But lately I am having more gay fanasties and also I have just started masturbating. But when I masturbate I start out with some straight things but climax to something gay (sorry if that is graphic). Here are some reasons why I think I may be gay and why I may be straight.
Reasons I might be straight:
-I cannot see myself emotionally involved with a man like a relationship.
-Women can still turn me on.
-At my age this can just be a phase.
-When I do have gay fantasies it usually involves a femmine gay and not a macho one.
Reasons why I think I may be gay:
-I think I can only climax to gay porn. (but still get turned on by straight porn)
-This kind of thing has been going on for awhile.
So please give me some advice. I don't want to be gay (don't mean to offend anyone.) Thanks in advance. | | You are gay congrats | Is this all just a cry for help (only mature people read) gay? k I'm 15 years old I'm a male. So my past I have been seein a counsler for trama about what my dad put me through. He was an alcholic he emotionally and physically abused me and my family. He would drink a pint of hard liquer a night. He would tell us things like you are a desgrace to this family and he should have used a condom
he said mean stuff and tour a hole right in my heart that can never be patched without the love of my dad shows love for me. I can't even think of my dad without crying.... When I was 12 I went to st George for expost to relax and get away. I was 12 and my cousin that was a dude and 18 raped me. I was torn I hid it and brushed it off hid it. Recently ive been haveing attractions to guys. I like gay porn. But I don't know if I'm gay• Is this all a mix up because I was rapped and abused. My feelings are so strong I cut to numb them. My heart Akes for not only my dads love but someone to love and hold me and tell me everything is going to be ok | | It's very possible this attraction to guys is a result of the abuse and the rape. Because of what you've been through, you might want to consider going to a therapist who specializes in helping victims of abuse and possibly meeting with a sexual assault victims advocate (or whatever they're called where you live). Male rape victims usually feel safer with female advocates because they are afraid the guys will judge them. If you go for counseling, tell the therapist about the cutting as well. Look for healthy activities you can replace the need to cut with. You'll need supportive people you can lean on and share your thoughts and feelings with. No one can fill the void your father left. You can heal, though. If you believe in God, look to Him for healing. The process is excruciatingly many times worse than is has to be if God's not in it. The healing process is always painful, but it builds character. | I masterbate to gay porn but? i am very disgusted by it lol i would never do anything like that in real life. after im done i feel very grossed out and my stomach starts to hurt i also watch straight porn but dont feel as bad. I only watch straight and gay porn nothing crazy like horses and bondage and ****.. lol does this make me gay? if so tell me why if not please explain also...mature people only thanks
ps: (also sometimes i feel guilt when i am around my guy friends and even sometimes just being around girls i dont tell them cuz i dont want them to think i am gay =/ ) PS: i love pussy :) | | Fruit. | Found of dad watches gay porn? I've known this for years now, and have kept my mouth shut for the sake of the family (which is on the rocks yet again). I'm 18 and more mature for my age due to the **** I've seen and dealt with about family issues and my parents. My mother had an affair with another man about 5 years ago and things havent been the same since. I somewhat side with my mother because my dad pushed her away and never wanted sex with her and they never showed compassion. He was supposed to go see a doctor to 'fix' the problem but never ending up going. Did he not even care?
Things are yet again falling apart with the family and I'm at the point where I'm moving out soon and ready to share what I know. It may not be my place, but I feel my mom has to know. I myself is coming out gay (could he have passed a 'gay gene' to me?) and watch gay porn on the computer, but I also caught the history on my dads computer watching gay porn. I delete it because the whole family can see it and may think its me when its really him. I rarely speak to my father because of what he does for some reason because I feel awkward to talk to him and embaressed. Now that I think of it, he kind of does have a feminine persona to him.
I desperatley want my parents to divorce for the sake of the family. And I just want my dad to be honest with everyone! This just isnt healthy for any of us. What should I do to make things better for the family?
By the way, when my parents fight about what the problem is and how their relationship is out of control, he always runs away when they talk about affection and physical connection to one another. | If a man watches gay porn he is gay.But if a woman watches lesbian porn she doesn't have to be gay.
Why is this | Found out dad watches gay porn? I've known this for years now, and have kept my mouth shut for the sake of the family (which is on the rocks yet again). I'm 18 and more mature for my age due to the **** I've seen and dealt with about family issues and my parents. My mother had an affair with another man about 5 years ago and things havent been the same since. I somewhat side with my mother because my dad pushed her away and never wanted sex with her and they never showed compassion. He was supposed to go see a doctor to 'fix' the problem but never ending up going. Did he not even care?
Things are yet again falling apart with the family and I'm at the point where I'm moving out soon and ready to share what I know. It may not be my place, but I feel my mom has to know. I myself is coming out gay (could he have passed a 'gay gene' to me?) and watch gay porn on the computer, but I also caught the history on my dads computer watching gay porn. I delete it because the whole family can see it and may think its me when its really him. I rarely speak to my father because of what he does for some reason because I feel awkward to talk to him and embaressed. Now that I think of it, he kind of does have a feminine persona to him.
I desperatley want my parents to divorce for the sake of the family. And I just want my dad to be honest with everyone! This just isnt healthy for any of us. What should I do to make things better for the family?
By the way, when my parents fight about what the problem is and how their relationship is out of control, he always runs away when they talk about affection and physical connection to one another. | with the older generation it's more common. there's actually support groups for "straight spouses", typically women married to gay men. i wouldn't be surprised if your mom already knows about your dad, considering. and i bet they're staying quiet and married "for the sake of the family." are you the youngest?
i was actually trying to play straight male when i got married, though i married a masculine woman. then i transitioned, and came to terms with being attracted to men. luckily, my spouse is not only bisexual, but transitioning as well.
anyway, it happens. it sucks. maybe you want to talk to your mom about this, or both your parents. i'd say talk to your dad about it first. but leave the rest of the family out of it. at least for now. | Am I gay? (16 years old and mature answers please)? Well here it goes, ever since I was a little guy I LOVED fantasizing about women, but around the 6th grade I had these small fantasies (gay) nothing major. Then they would come back, then go away, and that continued until I was like 14. Around that age I started to fantasize about both sexes, but felt a stronger attraction toward males during the fantasies. When I first masturbated it was to something gay. Now I have masturbated to gay and straight porn but to be honest, more gay porn.
The thing is though at school and in public I feel ZERO attraction to guys. I play on the soccer team and lot of times we got these muscular guys on the team playing without their shirts in practice, and I feel literally nothing. But girls at school have given me erections A LOT. And I find lesbian porn quite a turn on.
I'm overseas now and I RARELY masturbate to something straight. And in public I don't get an erection from a hot woman as I use to. I'm very confused atm. I don't want to offend anybody but I don't want to be gay.At what age do you think I will finally know what the hell is going on? Thank you in advance. | | First masturbating to gay porn does not make you gay. There are some guys who are straight who just get off on gay porn. But with the fantasizes i think you might be bi with your attractions leaning more towards women. And the "I don't want be gay" thing is not offensive, I myself didn't want to be gay at first. I actually hated myself for a long while because I was gay. | Could I be turning gay? Ever since i was a little guy i have been sure that i was straight, iv had countless crushes all on girls and thousands of fantasies about them but about a month ago i realize i had gotten bored with lesbian and milf/mature porn and ***** and bolwjobs got me aroused much easier. So i looked at gay porn and was not turned on by it, the penis is the only part of the male body i like and it seems that a woman being in the video also plays a part in arousing me. However the other day i overheard a classmate talking about how they knew a girl who dated guys, then said she was bi and eventually just said she was lebian. This got me thinking that mabey i could be turning gay and now for the last few days iv been getting terrible anxiety/depression attacks and mood swings about it and whenever im around my guy friends i get really scared/anxious that i could start to find one attractive or get a crush on one. Also ever since iv started to have this depression and anxiety iv seemed to lose the crush iv had on this girl for the last year and a half which makes me even more miserable. Could it be possible that im turning gay? | You don't "turn gay". You simply are realizing your bi-curiosity.
Just take it easy, and accept that you like what you like. Don't try to be something your not just because society views things differently. | Is my boyfriend gay? mature answers only plz? i asked this question last night, but i want to see how it does with a different crowd.
reasons i think he may be gay:
-just recently i discovered a myspace page that he had before he met me, on that page for his orientation it says not sure...i confronted him, he got mad and denied it, he said i was dwelling on it and i need to believe him. then he said his friend created the page and then he just simply said he doesnt know and thats that.
- he's very sensitive, we could be having sex and he'll want me to take it more slow and look him in the eyes and tell him i love him.
- he's clean, he takes at least an hour in the shower and sometimes showers more than once
- he's mentioned that he thinks some male celebrities are "good looking"
- his brother sort of raped him when he was younger ( he tried to stick his penis in his *** but my boyfriend stopped him)
- he's given his male friends a teabag which is where he took his testicles out and placed them on their forehead as a way to embarrass them he says, seems weird to me though.
- im only the 5th girl he's had sex with and he's 25
- his ex was sort of a dyke
- he's not big on giving oral to women, even in the past, but he's big on receiving
- he would do anything his mother told him to, his dad not so much, he hangs out with his mom, goes shopping with her...but he was raised only by his dad
- his dad is a little bi-curious (idk maybe it's genetic)
- he watches a lot of girly shows like designing women, sex and the city and golden girls
reasons i think he's straight:
- i'll notice him checking women out
- he gets turned on very easily with me
- he talks about having a future with me as his wife and having guys
- everytime we break up he goes on myspace and talks to tons of girls, telling them how beautiful they are, but idk, is this a cover up???
- he only owns and watches lesbian porn.
- he says that he can't watch straight porn cuz he cant look at another man's ****
-he likes manly things, like fighting, action, and violent movies and video games.
-he's very protective.
-he gets jealous easily if he thinks im into another guy.
-he's done so much for me and stuck by myside when i put him through so much abuse, both physically, verbally and mentally, so apart of me feels like if he were gay, why devote so much to a girl, why care so much and go to such great extremes for a girl.
idk, im confused. | First I have meet, to my embarrassment, effeminate, sensitive men that were straight.
I work with sexually abused guys, and they for a long time question if they are this or that.
Hence is statement on myspace is normal.
If you want to help him as a person, not your boyfriend, then support him and say you would like to help him find himself.
Suggest he go where there is lot of people of both sexes and all ages.
he can then figure out what turns him on.
However if he wish to hold one to you as his, then you have a more difficult place, and he may not share with you his finding's
bottom line is your prodding will not help his insecurity.
you can only love him and hope for the best. | Is my boyfriend gay? mature answers only plzzz? reasons i think he may be gay:
- he's very sensitive, we could be having sex and he'll want me to take it more slow and look him in the eyes and tell him i love him.
- he's clean, he takes at least an hour in the shower and sometimes showers more than once
- he's mentioned that he thinks some male celebrities are "good looking"
- his brother sort of raped him when he was younger ( he tried to stick his penis in his *** but my boyfriend stopped him)
- he's given his male friends a teabag which is where he took his testicles out and placed them on their forehead as a way to embarress them he says, seems weird to me though.
- im only the 5th girl he's had sex with and he's 25
- his ex was sort of a dyke
- he's not big on giving oral to women, even in the past, but he's big on receiving
- he would do anything his mother told him to, his dad not so much, he hangs out with his mom, goes shopping with her...but he was raised only by his dad
- his dad is a little bi-curious (idk maybe it's genetic)
- he watches a lot of girly shows like designing women, sex and the city and golden girls
- just recently i discovered a myspace page that he had before he met me, on that page for his orientation it says not sure...i confronted him, he got mad and denied it, he said i was dwelling on it and i need to believe him.
reasons i think he's straight:
- i'll notice him checking women out
- he gets turned on very easily with me
- he talks about having a future with me as his wife and having guys
- everytime we break up he goes on myspace and talks to tons of girls, telling them how beautiful they are, but idk, is this a cover up???
- he only owns and watches lesbian porn.
- he says that he can't watch straight porn cuz he cant look at another man's ****
-he likes manly things, like fighting, action, and violent movies and video games.
-he's very protective.
-he gets jealous easily if he thinks im into another guy.
-he's done so much for me and stuck by myside when i put him through so much abuse, both physically, verbally and mentally, so apart of me feels like if he were gay, why devote so much to a girl, why care so much and go to such great extremes for a girl.
idk, im confused. | i would say that he probably is at least curious
i mean...to be fair you are naming alot of steryotypes but if its really confusing you on the issue the best thing to do is sit down and talk over it. He may feel some attraction or maybe its just in your imagination.Sometimes guys are afraid of being labeled "homo" so they try to hide it,which may be why he didnt want to talk over it.
But like i said,talk to him over it,he seems to care about you alot and is turned on by you,so i dont see any problems in this relationship.You may just not wanna lose a great guy :D(as a side note,im not gay i love women) but like i said,talk it over and you should get your answer.
hope i helped :3 | What is your favourite Gay porn site? Mine is www.ragingstallion.com
Best quality
Matured actors
I mean best in all. | I"m SOOO Being trashy, BUT! lol
queerclick
It's a bloggy site that is involging and totally humorous.
Outside of that it's justusboys, xtube or famousmales.
I KNOW! but the sites are at least semi-tasteful. :) |
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