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What do guys/girls honestly think about threesome's? Mature ppls only.? Guys, what do you think about two guys and one girl, or two girl threesome's? Girls what about you? The only thing is your in a serious relationship and your wondering will if mess things up if you did or will you stay together? What do you guys/girls think? Pro's and Con's | | Every man would like to know if he could satisfy two women. If he did it with women that he was not seriously involved with it would be ok. Other wise it is dangerious, and will destroy a relatlionship. One woman two men the same thing it will cause problem with a relationship. Some women need more than one man to satisfy there need, in that case it would be ok as long and none were in a serious relationship. I hope this answers your questiosn. | Has anyone had a threesome? Please, let's be mature about this. I just want to know what happened.? Were you in a relationship with one of the participants? What was the gender of everyone involved? What happened? How did it come about? Did it ruin your relationship if you were in one? Were there jealousy problems? Did you do it with friends? Were your friendships still in tact after? Did it ruin one on one sex for you? Thank you for your input! | Has anyone had a threesome?
Yes, and sometimes with more than three of us. Happens with some close friends, not outside that.
Were you in a relationship with one of the participants?
Not at first. At first it was something that happened with my best friends. The first time I was in a threesome with a guy, it was the first time we had slept together. We weren't really a couple at that point, but we are still together now after several years.
What was the gender of everyone involved?
The first times, always all girls. Wasn't ready for anything else and we were comfortable with it. First time with my boyfriend it was with another girl, my best friend. Since then, various combinations really. It's almost always with other girls and my boyfriend, that just happens more naturally somehow. There are two in particular who it happens a lot with, it's lovely because we're very close and it feels very intimate, and it's always really good for all of us. Sometimes with other guys there. Rarely with just me and my boyfriend and our guy friends, although it has happened.
What happened? How did it come about?
The first times we were fooling around and it just happened. It wasn't something we planned in any way, I guess it just felt right. After that it was something that we did, although obviously we didn't really tell anyone who wasn't involved. The first time with my boyfriend and my best friend, we somehow ended up all making out after a party at my aunt's house (we were joking around a bit at first I guess) and after we were all kissing one thing just led to another. We were all a bit tipsy. Again, it just happened, and after that it was just something we did if we felt like it and the situation was right. It's never been at all awkward.
The first time there was another guy involved, it was with another couple, although there have been a few times since when I've been the only girl. That's a lot of fun but a very different experience. I was very nervous about going through with it the first time and although I really like it, it's not something I would want to do all the time. Nice to be the center of attention and it's always been comfortable, but it's pretty intense just being with guys. The first time that happened I was visiting my boyfriend at college, in halls, it's happened occasionally since in various ways. It's a small number of guys who we all know very well and I trust, and although I end up feeling really submissive it's actually like I'm in charge of that, it's hard to explain. It's really not that often I've been the only girl though. Some of my friends have as well, but not all.
Did it ruin your relationship if you were in one? Were there jealousy problems?
No, never been any problems. We all understand each other. I guess there are some unspoken rules.
Did you do it with friends? Were your friendships still intact after?
Yes, for us this only happens within a small group of very close friends, none of us have ever done this kind of thing with other people. We have all remained friends. It happens if we're together and the mood is right. The majority of times my boyfriend and I have been with others, it's been with my best friend and my sister, that's something that has always happened pretty regularly (and all that's happened recently). It's lovely because we're very close, so it's intimate like being with just my boyfriend - being with more people is fun, but it's not usually as intimate or tender if that makes sense, and this is. It's nice for us to be able to sleep together afterwards and be really comfortable with each other, so it's always happened a lot. It's kind of an open secret I guess.
And there have been times when we've all been together which is kind of funny and usually involves a lot of alcohol, hasn't happened as much lately because people have moved about. I realize some people may find this unacceptable, but none of us are promiscuous - or rather we're only promiscuous with each other! It's obviously not something we usually tell people about, although sometimes we've been less than discrete (to put it very mildly) and some people do know. People are funny about it though, especially about certain stuff like being with more than one guy. I know some people must think it's weird, but it stays within our friends and it works for us. It's really not that uncommon, I know plenty of other people who sometimes have threesomes or more. I don't know if this will still be happening in another 10 years, but it might.
Did it ruin one on one sex for you?
No, it's just different. Sometimes it's really, really good, but I'm perfectly happy when it's just me and boyfriend because that can be really good too.
Thank you for your input!
You're welcome! I'm not sure how much I should say about this, as it is quite a personal thing, but I hope it answers your question. | Mature answers pls about threesome...? I've read so much about threesomes here and out of curiosity I asked my husband if he would like to have a threesome. Surprisingly, He said it would be a nice experience for me. She should be a lesbian who would pleasure me and my husband will watch us (he likes girls on girls too, he finds it hot) We both agreed that we have to set some ground rules like, he can't fu@% the other girl but we (lesbian and I)can touch each other and he will only make love to me. It's up to me if I decide to let him fondle her too, if she likes (being a lesbian) He said it will be a pleasurable experience for me and he doesn't mind it at all, he thinks it's very kinky. Any suggestions? Think its a good idea? | | Fine if you're single, but in a relationship, nothing good can come of it. | What is "mature" in regards to a person or a relationship? I see that word thrown around a lot. Just read a comment that it takes a mature person and a mature relationship to have a threesome. Honestly, I am unclear as to what is so mature about that. In general, what qualities in a person or a relationship would you think were a reflection of them being "mature"? | Treat people the way you want to be treated. That for me is number one. Believe it or not, I find that to be the hardest to do.
We always want others to treat us better, but when it comes to other people, we sometimes have no problems hurt their feelings by words or actions. However, if you can treat others the way you want to be treated every time without fail, you are definitely a mature person.
I think a mature person is capable of reason and moral responsibility.
Now here comes the other part of the question.
I know threesome is almost the norm now. I can care less what people do behind their closed doors. But I honestly think threesome is not for a long loving relationship, it just makes cheating sounds a little noble. But then again, it is just my opinion anyway. | Where can i find a female for a threesome thats kinkyn wild and freky? Where can I find a threesome partner for group sex in new orleans prefer a female with brown haie and mature. we want ti ty | | You can try a call girl . | Where is the best place to meet someone for a threesome? My two BFFs and I were going to go out and do something fun tonight. Should we meet for dinner or go to a movie for girls night?
Thank you for your kind and mature advice. I ask here because I am married and the two of them are also married. | | Go for drinks, I find it helps break the ice. | Why did i have a dream about a threesome with two men? two blonde men. i felt a little bit guilty when i woke up.
i have a boyfriend that im actually having some commitment issues with, i think it may be a sign that i need to experience life more and mature. | | because you were horny heheh. | My wife wants to have a threesome with a transsexual woman? I'm all for it, and i hate the idea of objectifying someone by searching for them on the internet or going to a special bar. it feels like I'm buying a lawnmower, is that a more personal and mature way to go about meeting someone | So your wife wants to have a 3 some with another woman?
I'm curious why this woman needs to be a transsexual.. is it due to some skewed fantasy based upon pornography, and is that your wife's perception of something you may want, due to your own particular or orientation issues..
I'm sure there's some unspoken rule here about telling this to you.. But often times when a woman comes up with such idea, it's done to test and please, you as a male.
often time, as women, if our boy friend/husband is looking at porn and or other women, it helps make us insecure and begin to question ourselves, while trying to figure out ways of pleasing our partner..
these feelings are often intensified and complicated by feminine issues.
As to objectifying, I'm confused, isn't looking at porn and or saying you like this body part or that part on women objectifying, isn't that something all men do? if you're not objectifying women.. perhaps your wife has figured this out.. and is testing to see if your really gay.. by having you find a transvestite, rather than a Transsexual woman. | I want to have a threesome and I need to meet some cool strangers.? I want to have a threesome with two or three mature black men with no strings attached in the Charleston area. If you or someone you know fits the bill please shoot me a message with your yahoo screen name and i will IM you ASAP. Just to be sure I am female. | | post your desires in the casual encounters section of Craig's list in your area.....craigslist.org.....you will find exactly what you are looking for! | OPINIONS: Pros & Cons of Threesome? while in a relationship of 7yrs. threesome 2 girls 1 guy.
Mature answers only please!! thnx!
personal experiences appreciated! | Honestly, I wouldn't. I've been in my current relationship for nearly six years and it just doesn't seem like a good idea to start involving another person. All I can imagine coming out of it is at least one person with hurt feelings. Unless you make a point of focusing on giving pleasure to one person and all parties involved understand that that is what the act is about, someones going to feel neglected and, in the long-run, rejected. It sounds mean, but if anyone is going to get hurt feelings as a result of a threesome, you kind of want it to be the third person, but as they're the individual with the least to lose it almost certainly won't be them that gets hurt.
Of course, that's just how I see it working out if my wife and I decided to have a threesome, maybe your relationship is different to ours and you can both deal with those kind of emotions and don't invest so emotionally in sex. You've got a better idea of the nature of your relationship than anyone else has so you're really the best judge on this.
If you do decide to go through with it I hope you all enjoy yourselves. |
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